Thursday, January 15, 2009

how to make a best friend..ha3

it may work for those who thinks they need to add new friends/for guys err...if u like a girl,u might want to show ur reputation as a bestfriend first..hehe.for me,i luf to make friends.everywhere i go..hi3 *Locate a proper "target." You probably want someone who looks nice, presentable, and has a few existing friends already. Don't run after the most popular girl in school, though. Work your way up and make sure you know who you are becoming friends with. *Compliments! They are the bread and butter of teen girls. Go up to your future friend and say something simple like "cute shoes" or "your hair looks pretty today" If she is with a group of friends and you are too shy to approach, then say it when she walks by. But make sure she can hear you! *If you have any classes with this girl, pretend like you forgot the assignment. Go up to her and say: "Hey, insertnamehere, you're in 6th period English, right? Do you remember the homework?" And when she replies, you can thank her and if you feel comfortable start a conversation. some good topics would be: movies, TV shows, music/bands, sports, school functions, etc. *In the hallway, make sure to smile, wave, or say hi to her. It will make you seem friendlier which is an awesome bonus! *If you see her ask her if she has a cell phone and start asking what kind and if she has text. If you both have texting, ask for her number! But only if she seems like she wants to. And if you aren't very close, don't call her unless you are asking about an assignment. She may feel rushed into a friendship. *Once you guys have gotten to know each other better, you can start approaching her when she is in a group. And if you guys start to talk a lot, invite her over! But you should probably wait until you are both comfortable so you won't have to deal with rejection. Rejection isn't a bad thing though! If she doesn't want to hang out with you, you may have just saved yourself from an awkward relationship.

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